Embracing Change: How Resisting the Present Blocks Transformation


Hello Reader

Are you caught in the loop of despair? This is when you keep repeating the same goals and challenges over and over again. For example, you set an income goal, market your business and reach your goal! That's great, but then something happens, and your income shrinks, then you set the goal again, reach it, and then something happens again, and your income shrinks again. Does that sound familiar??

This is the loop of despair. When you find yourself stuck here, it is a clue that your subconscious mind is blocking your progress. Your mind's job is to keep you safe, which means that you have to keep things the same. Once you recognize that you don't need a new strategy that what you need to do is work on your mind, then you can have true freedom and success.

How often have you wanted to change something in your life or business, set goals, and then revert back to how things were? How often do you find yourself in this loop? If you are ready to break the pattern, I have an exercise to help you work with the "loop of despair."

  1. Ask yourself what is a pattern that keeps repeating in your business or your life.
  2. What is your usual strategy to overcome that problem?
  3. How long does that strategy work for you?
  4. If it doesn't last, then ask yourself what have you been taught about this scenario (hint: it could be what's possible for you).
  5. Now, you can work with those thoughts and feelings.

If you want to learn more about creating lasting changes, then listen to my podcast episode on

Embracing Change: How Resisting the Present Blocks Transformation

In this episode, I go further into creating lasting change and discuss the following:

💫What is the Paradox of Transformation
💫How skipping the acceptance and forgiveness stage is sabotaging your success
💫What you can do to move forward and achieve your goals
💫Two concrete examples of how this paradox works

If you are ready to work with the subconscious blocks that are stopping your success, join me for a free 60-minute Masterclass:

" Overcoming Subconscious Block for your Business Success.
Tuesday, July 9th at 1 PM PST/4 PM EST

We will work directly with a subconscious block in this call.

Until next week,

Kavita Melwani​

:: MEET Kavita::
Kavita
is a Spiritual Success and Purpose coach, an empath, the mother to two teenage boys, and a wife of 23 years. She helps Conscious, Spiritual entrepreneurs create purposeful, profitable businesses aligned with their souls without burnout.

💫 PPS If you are ready to have a clear path to run your purposeful, profitable business then book your business elevation session here.

Kavita Melwani, M.Ed

Intuitive Success Coach Empowering soulful entrepreneurs *Jungian coach *Opulently shine *Empaths *Sensitives *Conscious souls 605-209-0797

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